Friday, July 21, 2006

kids..

when I was one, I wondered why grown-ups always complain about their kids. Why are these ppl so miserable ? aren't kids cute, and the joy of their lives?wonder why I wanted to grow up fast , and be less and less of a kid. how did they manage to entice me? No, i didnt want to complain, or be miserable, but being a grown -up sounds so cool. It beats being kiddish.and now I have one.phew ! how they spend your energy, and then still have plenty more. How does some so tiny manage to spin you so effectively ?

No ! - Invariable that's the word they learn to use, and use well.They behave well with you, but turn out absolute brats when you least expect. Brag about your kid to someone with a pest, and invariablty your own kid proves you wrong , right there, right then.

you see other ppls kids put up tandrums and fits ,and you decide that yours will never do that. wishful thinking indeed.sure, kids are fun, cute, smart,innocent and a rare and pure joy, but why is the torment factor so strong ?cos they are kids.

I am so done for life.

makes me wonder, why do sane people knowingly choose this ??? was I not an angel to my parents when I was small ?( Iam not asking you to answer that ).

Like the bumper sticker - If you love wildlife, have kids !

I have been warned and cautioned of the terrible two's by almost everyone I know, yet I am bewildered !!Being a parent myself has changed my perspective on every other parent. I trully am kinder, sympathetic and and ohh so miserable ..oh no..Iam bracing for my sanity , learning to be more patient, and to talk slow, and repeats the same instruction ten thousand times without raising my voice. I think I'll be a saint once I master these easy virtues.

wont I be a better person when I grow up ?

Someone asks me how I am doing - Iam doing fine, considering the fact that my life is ruled by a 2 yr old !

chatting with collugues- we share notes of our offsprings' torment.


Kingkong was good , untill the ending scenes, and I thought that was boring and too predictable.could it end any different ? One person's greed to 'make it' leads to such mindless dectruction, affecting so many.

A quote reminds in mind '.. he destroys that which he truly loves...' that doesnt make sense.

Dont we nurture and protect what we truely love ?or do we?

I would recommend Crash to be watched by everybody, after all arent we all prejudiced in some way or the other? I liked the twists the characters take after the incident specially the racist cop reveals that he's a regular joe.

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